Wednesday, 27 February 2008
Brophy's Coffee Shop - Sad
Saturday, 23 February 2008
Birthday Treat
Today was my 59th birthday. How did I celebrate? You may well ask. I had an extra dose of cough medicine and plenty of decongestants thoughout the day in an endeavour to maintain breathing function. Next to eating it is my favourite activity. I allowed myself a break from a sensible diet and purchased a jam doughnut from the village baker. The texture was interesting. I don't know if it had any flavour. The decongestants don't work that well.
I had several cards and gifts but felt too tired to open them till 4 p.m. A strange birthday. And stranger still to think that this time next year I'll be 60 and a pensioner with a bus pass.
I am very tired after a week of coughing more than sleeping most nights. I feel as if could sleep for a week. But the decongestants have me all wired up...
Thursday, 21 February 2008
All We Are Saying ...
"Petition [EN]: We, European citizens of all origins and of all political persuasions, wish to express our total opposition to the nomination of Tony Blair to the Presidency of the European Council. To sign the petition, please go to the bottom of this page "
Updated: 27th February Stinking Billy told me he couldn't find the link and i agree it was not very clear so here it is - i you don't want to read the pre amble click on this link to go directly to the petition: petition to stop Tony Blair nomination as EU president.
Tuesday, 19 February 2008
Iain Dale's Diary: More Money to Our Friends in the North?
Iain Dale's Diary: More Money to Our Friends in the North?
Gordon Brown's Dignity and Respect for the Aged
What has happened in this country where dignity and respect for our older citizens is so appallingly lacking? Why does this old gentleman have to sell his home to get the money to pay for treatment to save his sight? Why should he have to go blind in one eye before the local PHT/NHS will try and save the sight in his second eye? Why is it the National Health Service is no longer national and it all depends on post code lottery whether you are lucky to get the best available treatment or not. I am beginning to think we should all up sticks and move to Scotland.
How short sighted of the local health service. Becoming monocular leads to trips, falls and other minor accidents like scalds. If you don't believe me [for those other than GB] then try wearing an eye patch over one eye for a month and log how many accidents you have. From trying to fill a mug with boiling water to negoitating steps - all become fraught with difficulty. The younger you are the more time you will have to adapt and the more likely the brain will be able to cope with the adjustment. But youth is not on the side of people with age related loss of vision.
Perhaps the health service doesn't care - if this gentleman needs help to live at home through loss of independence with failing sight then obviously that will be from a different budget - a local government social services budget - a council tax funded budget. Maybe all of us over 50's should rise up together and withhold our council taxes. We could always start up a U3A goup in the prisons where we may feel safer, warmer and better fed with excellent access to the Health Service.
Again yet another example of our non - Caring Government and Prime Minister.
Incredible and Unbelievable
Thursday, 14 February 2008
BAFTA Awards
[1] Strife/Wife in the North [like the horse and carriage, you can't have one without the other]
[2] Merrydaze - short but sweet - [may be unable to attend in person to collect her award].
[3] Richard Madeley - just because he's a Clever Dick
[4] Ramblings - naturally interesting
[5] Three Beautiful Things for inspirational and uplifting posts
[6] Mark Wadsworth - Gordon Brown' s prudent hairshirt
[7] Winchester Whisperer - a classy classical intelligent writer
[8] Celebrityblogspot - a writer's guild - well known celebs confess their innermost thoughts
[9] Mutleythedog - most original mind - thinking man's dog/thinking dog's man
[10] Vaguetarian restaurant - like the restaurant at the end of the universe - diverse n different
They are all Excellent Bloggers and I hope they keep up their Good work and pick up their awards soon.
BAFTA Award Ceremony

I would also like to this opportunity to thank my Mother in the the Production Dept: my Father as Co-producer, Director and Finance Director. My sister in her role of best supporting sibling. My husband and lifelong partner, from the day we first met. I want to thank him for providing everything I need - well nearly all I need ... but not everything I want
Monday, 11 February 2008
Excellent Awards
I rushed over to collect it.
I gleaned from her blog that she was awarded this prize by a Maggie May (who I thought was married to Rod Stewart) but no apparantly she is just GrannieMay of 'Nuts in May' .
I decided to take one further leap back into the dark depths and found that Nuttie Grannie May received this award from another mother. There seem to be a lot of them out there in the blogosphere. This mother masquerades as a supermarket waxed version of bread.
At this point I was tired and exhausted from going back through the past. I've done my best and hope you'll find some worthy new blogs from my research. If you do pop in on them be sure to leave a comment as a small reward. I'll be going back to take a longer look.
All I have to do now is ponder on the question of who I should pass this award on to next ....
Thursday, 7 February 2008
Birdsong
Tuesday, 5 February 2008
Smutty MeMe
Friday, 1 February 2008
Guest Blog Spot February
Wednesday, 30 January 2008
Well What A Relief
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Saturday, 26 January 2008
Personality Testing
You see the world as it should be, and this goes double for all matters of the heart.
You can find the romance in any situation, and you would make a talented romance story writer...
And while you may be a traditional romantic, you're just as likely to be drawn to quirky or dark love stories.
As long as it deals with infatuation, heartbreak, and soulmates - you could write it.
And also:
You Are 67% Real
You know who you are, and you're pretty darn comfortable with yourself.
Like everyone, you struggle with the parts of yourself that aren't so great...
But you're good at accepting who you are and not dwelling on your faults.
As a result, you're confident, optimistic, and very real.
Tuesday, 22 January 2008
A Few Household Tips
- Keep a small bottle of pure Lavender essentail oil in your kithcen. If you burn yourself ( e.g. on the oven shelf in that little gap where the oven gloves don't reach) just grab that little brown bottle and a drop of neat lavender oil on the burn will immediatley remove the sting. It will heal super fast without leaving a scar. Read up on using oils safely as it is not usual to use them neat. Lavender should be used sparingly if you have high blood pressure.I can thoroughly recommend a book for learning about how to use essentail oils for all kinds of household uses from the laundry room, for health and first aid, to pest control and to make your own air freshener.
- A few drops of lavender oil in water will also take the sting out of sun burn - if you ever get caught out without sunscreen. Just lightly wring out a face cloth and pat on the burnt area.
- A wee drop of washing-up liquid spread over a bathroom mirror and vigorously polished off will stop that mirror from steaming up for weeks - maybe months - bit of hard work and elbow grease but worth the effort.
- For pet owners out there - to kill fleas that have been vacuumed up or to stop flea eggs sprouting (whatever the expression should be) place a cat flea collar in the dust collecting bag/bin of your vacuum cleaner. Renew the collar every 6 months.
- Finally this tip is a famous quote from Quentin Crisp. I've never been able to hold my nerve long enough to check out if it is in fact correct! "Dust doesn't get any thicker after 4 years"
Handing the baton on now to : Mopsa, Flowerpot, Mark Wadsworth and the Winchester Whisperer. I've included Mark as I don't see why this should just be a woman's thing.
Instructions for this meme:
Write your tip(s) with a link to who sent the meme to you, along with the instructions. They are better if they are your own discovery, or not widely known. Still, tips that make a difference to you are all good. After your tips, you may want to tag some fellow bloggers.
Monday, 14 January 2008
Is It Art?
However, Carl Warner's 'Foodscapes' are amazing. Every part of this sunset idyllic scene is made up of food. The sky is made from salmon (I've heard of a mackerel sky before) the sea also is salmon. If you look carefully the 'boat' is a pea pod. The rocks and pebbles are made from bread or potatoes, the sand is sugar. It is well worth going over to the photographer's web site to explore further images. If you want to see more of his FoodScapes then you will need to visit his website. Once you have entered his website follow the links by clicking on the Orange coloured box then choose the 2nd folder for his Foodscapes. They are all fascinating. His other portfolios are of interest as well. Go and explore. Enjoy. This is Art.
Friday, 11 January 2008
Noisy Neighbours

I can see the rookery from my kitchen window so am aware of thier daily goings on. I don't know what it is but something makes them suddenly swirl up in the air with a clamour of calls, wheel about for a while then settle back on the perches. I usually notice the movement first then I hear the sound. On reading this article I see it may predict weather patterns; I'll have to try and see if it does fit with this observation during this year.
The raucous calls, the arguments, disputes and gossiping chatter. No wonder the collective nouns for rooks are Parliament, Building or Clamour. The make fascinating neighbours. Always industrious they are invariably repairing or rebuilding their nests. Sometimes their chatter continues intermittently throughout the night. Less so in the cold depths of midwinter nights.
Now behind the copse of trees at the top of our garden there are many arable fields. These fields are always full of feeding rooks during the day. But not from 'our' rookery. No our rooks fly off each morning in a north easterly direction. They cross paths with rooks flying in from a north westerly direction to feed in the fields behind us. Rooks commute. Single rooks also have an odd way of flying. As we live almost at the top of a hill we get to see many individual birds flying towards us at eye level. Rooks have a strange sideways flight. They rarely seem to fly from A to B in a direct manner. They seem to flap their wings, looking left and right as they fly and travel at a drifting angle. It's very hard to predict exactly where they intend to go. In spring when they are carrying large twigs back to the nest they often drop them just short and our garden rapidly becomes littered with very large twigs.
Tuesday, 8 January 2008
Infamous/Famous Blogs
Did you see in the media at the weekend that someone who claims to be a well known domestic actress ( lower levels) by the name of Jane Slavin has written a blog about her ex lover? If Lucia is in fact Slavin I find it most illuminating that she has listed her own book as her favourite read on her profile page.
I'm inclined to think that picking holes in some one's personality is not on. But she increases my irritation by being very unkind about his physical features. I think the fact she didn't have the 'courage' to address these issues to his face tells rather a lot about her too. Slavin was apparently unavailable for comments. I also find it interesting that there is no option to leave a comment on her blog either. Not surprising - this sounds as if she is one cowardly lady.
I also read that she is hoping for a publishing offer to come out of this blog. I do hope no publisher will take this writer on. Writers shouldn't be allowed to make financial gain from being unkind to others. I don't know what your views are but I think this is one sad story .....
Perhaps she thought that she would be the next Belle de Jour?
Sunday, 6 January 2008
How Old?
Monday, 31 December 2007
MeMe 2007
8 things I wish for 2008:
- Good health with no health scares for me, my spouse, my family and friends
- Improved fitness levels (I intend to return to walking more)
- A year free from anxiety and stress
- A year full of laughter and funfilled activities
- A year free from builders
- That the Govt improve the state pension in readiness for my claim in 2009
- The Govt bring in zero income tax and place all taxes on as a purchase tax
- That we in the SW are able to find out exactly how much our new unelected , secret SW Regional Assembley is costing us on our local Council Tax and why exactly we need yet another layer of beaurocracy.
Last Meme for 2007
Therefore the tag will have to wait until later.
Sunday, 30 December 2007
Blogs As A Memorial
There are so many abandoned blogs out there. I can't help wondering what happened to their once keen creators. Hopefully bloggers will think about leave some way of allowing thier exectors to post a final notice when that day does come.
And also thanks to the bloggers such as MerryDaze who leave a postnote if they suddenly stop posting. One final message saves all your readers or friends on the blogosphere from wondering what happened to you.
Saturday, 29 December 2007
What a Muddle - a Modern Tall Story
This has all the elements of a tall story, a mystery. I was just wondering why Alistair Darwin became a cross dresser and went out to Panama City to live as Anne Darling with 'her' dead husband, John Darwin, an ex canoeist from the Seaton Crew. Some people will try anything for some extra money.Tuesday, 25 December 2007
Queens Speech
Save the £1 Coin
Wednesday, 19 December 2007
A Merry Christmas to all
If you are interested in finding out more about the designer of these cards then Jacquie Lawson is the lady you need to meet.
Friday, 14 December 2007
The History of the Guest Blog Spot
I came up with the idea I'd offer a prize of a 'Guest Blog Spot' for the first NEW commenter on the site meter hitting the 2000 visitor. Once I realised some people leave comments as a means of self promotion I then assumed that every reader would be a blogger and would have a site to 'promote'. I've since found there are what is known as 'blurkers' - they only read blogs. Now I only started to read blogs after I'd started one. In fact originally, I'm rather embarrassed to say, that I didn't even know how to leave a comment. I assumed the purpose of comments was to let the blogger know their entry had been read. I admit I would only choose to leave a comment if I found the blog of interest. If it didn't attract me in any way then I would leave silently. I would not return.
My first virginal comment was actually emailed to the blogger. I thought I'd made a mistake by clicking on the little white envelope and not on the comments link. But now looking back at my archived emails I think I may actually have sent her a 'link' to her post. (Blush) Everything was by trial and error. I slowly realised that when leaving a comment the blogger often visited my blog and finally someone left me a comment. An exciting moment. Until that point I had made one or two comments anonymously on my own blog. And persuaded a close friend to visit and leave a short sharp remark. I wanted it to look as if I had readers. I can't quite remember when I found sitemeter and installed it.
I've mostly found out how to blog by the sink or swim method. I've enjoyed jumping into the deep end and finding my way around the system. I sometimes sneak off to use a friends PC or one at the library so that I can check how my blog looks on other page set ups. I've recently read this book which has introduced to me some other ideas on blogging and some blog slang terms such as blurker. There's much to improve on in the future.
Now to return to the initial point I had a great deal of fun choosing the Guest Blogger. I was reluctant to close the slot at the end of the month. I also liked the idea of promoting blogs that I might not have found very easily by just surfing the blogosphere. It also encouraged bloggers who may have been shy of leaving a remark previously. I'm aware of a couple of regular readers who did eventually rise to the bait and leave a comment. I don't want to promote every guest to my blogroll as it would just grow and grow. But if I become a regular reader they do attain that
The guest bloggers will always be there in the archives. Anyone who is interested in finding out previous guests will only have to click on the tag 'GUEST slot' to see all the previous posts. I hope to figure out if it will be possible to eventually link the tag to the monthly slot in the sidebar. But that will be for the quieter days of the New Year.
Finally, on writing this I have had confirmation of what I long suspected. Regular readers who read an entry via a feed RSS or Atom may not appear in the stats. So to all of my fellow bloggers who allow site feed - you may have more readers than your stat counter shows.
Tuesday, 11 December 2007
Famous Flowerpot on West Country TV
Thanks Flower - it's been good to meet you.
Update: to get it to load properly you must allow cookies other wise it tells you rather rudely that cookies are not enabled and then refuses to load.
Kate & Gerry McCann
I really don't understand why it is that Kate McCann is the one who is regularly seen as maybe being responsible for causing harm to her child. Kate was the one who raised the alarm at finding Madeleine 'missing'. But according to the reports I read Gerry was the one who had been checking on their children, several times, through most of the evening. Why has no-one wondered whether he had something to do with her disappearance but allowed his wife to discover the loss later in the evening? I know the Portuguese police have come in for a great deal of criticism about their handling of the case but maybe the fact that the McCanns were insistent she had been snatched rather than she had wandered away raised their suspicions in the first place?
Whatever the truth behind it all the sad fact is that Madeleine is still missing with none of us any the wiser as to what happened to her. If she didn't just wander off into the night then one person at least does know.
Monday, 10 December 2007
A Change is as Good as a Rest
- Lil sister and me giggling like teens over a glass [or three] of red wine.
- Tasting a Krispy Kreme doughnut for the first time - they are good - nearest stockist from Devon is 96 miles, therefore unlikely to become a regular treat.
- The friendliness of Croydonians. So many people made friendly comments as I explored the Croydon shops with wonder. It was all so big and bewildering I didn't have time or energy left to actually spend money. So I now have an excuse to head into Exeter for a spending spree.
- Staying with my sister in the Surrey green belt, with no internet access due to the falling trees interfering with the BT lines in the gales the previous weekend, I found I can survive the withdrawal symptoms of a blog free week.
- Complete change of routine - staying up till 2.00 a.m. and still rising at 7.00 a.m for a week means I am now trying to play catch up on lost sleep.
Home Sweet Home
Saturday, 1 December 2007
Normal Service Will Be Disrupted ......
Friday, 30 November 2007
December Guest Bloggers Will Be .....
- Eurodog training
- Iota - experience of Brit woman living in Mid West USA
- I Am the Diva
- Kami's place
- Kaylee's blog - a teenager who recently had a heart transplant
- Robert - his wife has agoraphobia
- Diane - a blogging mother
- The Swearing Mother - don't all mothers swear?
I am sure you will find some interesting reading here - do explore them.
Wednesday, 28 November 2007
I'm Willing to Support the Labour Party
Monday, 26 November 2007
Charity Begins at Home
Iceland Poppies - Shari White
Welcome
However, I wish to point out that this blog is now 'semi retired'. Any regular posts I now write are over on Careless Carer
Just click on the link.
Who am I? Funny you should ask ..
- Penny Pincher
- East Devon, United Kingdom
- What is this life, If full of care, We have no time to stand and stare .... Caring for a depressed spouse with mobility problems following a RTA. Blogging helps me clear my mind and keep mentally fit. Penelope and Penny are my Pen names.
Some Amusing or Impressive Blogs
- 3 Beautiful Things
- A Sidmouth Author's Blog
- Abandoned Wife
- Around My Kitchen Table
- Boring [or very Funny? you decide]
- Celebs Blog Spot
- chrissie's kitchen
- Clairvoyance
- Curly's Corner Shop
- Flowerpot Days
- georgeonline - For cat lovers everywhere
- Give a Dog a Home
- Going Down the Tube - London Underground
- GrannyMay's
- Henry North London
- I Am Livid
- Jenny's Corner - A Book Lover
- Mark Wadsworth
- Merrily We Roll Along
- MerryDaze
- Middle Aged and Hormonally Challenged
- Mutleythedogsdayout
- Potty Diaries
- Ramblings
- Random Acts of Reality
- Reasons to be Cheerful
- Retired and Crazy
- Richard Madeley - A Clever Dick
- Smaller Than Life - Funny man's blog
- St Billy
- Strife in the North
- This is This
- Tine
- Toby - His Life and Stories
- Vaguetarian Tearooms
- Wife in the North
- Winchester Whisperer
- Witty Woman
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Readers Kind Comments
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Mixed Bag of Political Blogs
The Ageless Project
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